Friendship fit · 81 pairings and the 11 row
Life Path compatibility chart, for friends
Life Path compatibility compares two Life Path numbers: the single number each birthday reduces to. This chart shows how Soulmath scores every pairing from 1 to 9, and links to a page written for each side of each friendship.
Compare two birthdaysNumerology compatibility, without the verdicts. The numbers describe how two people tend to move together. What you do with that is between you and your friend.
The chart
Numerology compatibility chart: Life Path 1 to 9
Find your Life Path down the side and your friend’s along the top. Each value is the Life Path term out of 100, the largest single piece of a Soulmath compare. It is the same number for every pair of people with those two Life Paths.
| You ↓ Them → | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | 75 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 70 | 80 | 70 |
| 2 | 70 | 75 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 60 | 70 | 80 |
| 3 | 60 | 70 | 75 | 70 | 80 | 70 | 70 | 60 | 70 |
| 4 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 75 | 70 | 60 | 80 | 70 | 60 |
| 5 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 70 | 75 | 70 | 70 | 60 | 70 |
| 6 | 70 | 80 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 75 | 60 | 70 | 80 |
| 7 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 70 | 60 | 75 | 70 | 60 |
| 8 | 80 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 70 | 75 | 70 |
| 9 | 70 | 80 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 60 | 70 | 75 |
Life Path 11 compatibility chart
Life Path 11 is a master number and is never reduced in a reading. For this one step the model places it through the 2 underneath it, in the heart group, which is why 11 with 2 lands in the shared-number band.
| You ↓ | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 11 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 11 | 70 | 75 | 70 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 60 | 70 | 80 | 75 |
- 80Same vibe group, different numbers
- Strong resonance. You want similar things from a friendship and go about it slightly differently.
- 75The same number twice
- Comfortable and instantly familiar, marked down a little because nobody covers the blind spot.
- 70Neighbouring vibe groups
- Complementary. Each of you covers something the other tends to skip.
- 60Opposite vibe groups
- The high-friction, high-interest band. More to negotiate, usually more to learn.
The chart is symmetric: 3 and 7 score the same as 7 and 3. The pages below are not. Each one is written for the person reading it.
The method
How Soulmath scores Life Path compatibility
Each birthday reduces to a Life Path number using the Pythagorean method: reduce the month, the day and the year separately, add the three, then reduce the total. Master numbers 11, 22 and 33 are never reduced. The calculation guide walks through it with worked examples.
The nine single-digit Life Paths sit in four vibe groups, arranged in a cycle so neighbours complement each other and opposites create the most friction. The Life Path term comes from how the two groups relate, which is why the chart only ever shows four values.
- drive
- Life Path 1 and 8. Leans toward drive and initiative.
- heart
- Life Path 2, 6 and 9. Leans toward attunement and care.
- spark
- Life Path 3 and 5. Leans toward expression and change.
- roots
- Life Path 4 and 7. Leans toward structure and depth.
A live compare uses two full birthdays, so it adds two smaller terms on top: a couple of points when both Birthday numbers reduce to the same digit, and a few more when a master number is present. The total is capped at 100, and every term is shown on the result.
None of this is a forecast. It is a consistent way to start a conversation about how two friends work, with arithmetic you can check. The method page covers the sources and the limits.
All 91 pages
Every Life Path pairing, written from your side
Pick your own Life Path first. Each link is one friendship described from your half of it: what it is like, where it keeps going wrong, and what you can do about that.
If you are a Life Path 1
The Source · drive group · Life Path 1 meaning
- Life Path 1 and 1 compatibilitytwo starters, one plan
- Life Path 1 and 2 compatibilitypace against attunement
- Life Path 1 and 3 compatibilitythe plan and the party
- Life Path 1 and 4 compatibilitystarting versus finishing
- Life Path 1 and 5 compatibilitytwo people already moving
- Life Path 1 and 6 compatibilitythe driver and the host
- Life Path 1 and 7 compatibilitydecide now, think first
- Life Path 1 and 8 compatibilitytwo engines, one scoreboard
- Life Path 1 and 9 compatibilitythe move and the meaning
If you are a Life Path 2
The Diplomat · heart group · Life Path 2 meaning
- Life Path 2 and 1 compatibilitythe deferral problem
- Life Path 2 and 2 compatibilitynobody wants to choose
- Life Path 2 and 3 compatibilityabsorbing the weather
- Life Path 2 and 4 compatibilityreliable, and slightly grim
- Life Path 2 and 5 compatibilitythe cancelled plan
- Life Path 2 and 6 compatibilitytwo carers, one ledger
- Life Path 2 and 7 compatibilitysilence you keep decoding
- Life Path 2 and 8 compatibilitybluntness and hedging
- Life Path 2 and 9 compatibilitytwo people giving
If you are a Life Path 3
The Creative Communicator · spark group · Life Path 3 meaning
- Life Path 3 and 1 compatibilitybeing edited
- Life Path 3 and 2 compatibilitysomeone is holding you
- Life Path 3 and 3 compatibilitybrilliant, nothing shipped
- Life Path 3 and 4 compatibilityideas heard as promises
- Life Path 3 and 5 compatibilityvivid and unreliable
- Life Path 3 and 6 compatibilityimprovising at their table
- Life Path 3 and 7 compatibilityfilling their silence
- Life Path 3 and 8 compatibilitywhat is it actually for
- Life Path 3 and 9 compatibilitydeflection meets depth
If you are a Life Path 4
The Builder · roots group · Life Path 4 meaning
- Life Path 4 and 1 compatibilitythey announce, you deliver
- Life Path 4 and 2 compatibilitytwo people who show up
- Life Path 4 and 3 compatibilitytheir maybe, your plan
- Life Path 4 and 4 compatibilitysolid, and slightly stuck
- Life Path 4 and 5 compatibilityyour calendar, their whim
- Life Path 4 and 6 compatibilitytwo sets of standards
- Life Path 4 and 7 compatibilitydepth that never gets said
- Life Path 4 and 8 compatibilitythe risk you would veto
- Life Path 4 and 9 compatibilityscope against structure
If you are a Life Path 5
The Freedom-Seeker · spark group · Life Path 5 meaning
- Life Path 5 and 1 compatibilitybooked before you agreed
- Life Path 5 and 2 compatibilitywhat your cancelling costs
- Life Path 5 and 3 compatibilityhigh ceiling, no floor
- Life Path 5 and 4 compatibilitythe fixed point
- Life Path 5 and 5 compatibilitytwo scouts, no base camp
- Life Path 5 and 6 compatibilitythe door left open
- Life Path 5 and 7 compatibilitytwo kinds of disappearing
- Life Path 5 and 8 compatibilitycommit to something
- Life Path 5 and 9 compatibilitymotion against meaning
If you are a Life Path 6
The Nurturer · heart group · Life Path 6 meaning
- Life Path 6 and 1 compatibilityyou hosted, they decided
- Life Path 6 and 2 compatibilitytwo people not asking
- Life Path 6 and 3 compatibilityyour evening, rearranged
- Life Path 6 and 4 compatibilityright in two directions
- Life Path 6 and 5 compatibilityyou stayed, they went
- Life Path 6 and 6 compatibilitytwo hosts, no guests
- Life Path 6 and 7 compatibilityhelp they did not want
- Life Path 6 and 8 compatibilitypeople against outcomes
- Life Path 6 and 9 compatibilitynear care and far care
If you are a Life Path 7
The Seeker · roots group · Life Path 7 meaning
- Life Path 7 and 1 compatibilityanswer me now
- Life Path 7 and 2 compatibilityyour silence, their theory
- Life Path 7 and 3 compatibilitythey talk through the gap
- Life Path 7 and 4 compatibilitycomfortable and unsaid
- Life Path 7 and 5 compatibilityabsence without offence
- Life Path 7 and 6 compatibilitylooked after too closely
- Life Path 7 and 7 compatibilitynobody suggests anything
- Life Path 7 and 8 compatibilitygive me the conclusion
- Life Path 7 and 9 compatibilityunderstanding and caring
If you are a Life Path 8
The Power-Wielder · drive group · Life Path 8 meaning
- Life Path 8 and 1 compatibilitythe quiet scoreboard
- Life Path 8 and 2 compatibilityhedging you keep pushing
- Life Path 8 and 3 compatibilityone flat sentence
- Life Path 8 and 4 compatibilitythe brake you keep ignoring
- Life Path 8 and 5 compatibilitycapability you cannot bank
- Life Path 8 and 6 compatibilitygiving with no invoice
- Life Path 8 and 7 compatibilitythe working you skipped
- Life Path 8 and 8 compatibilitytwo amplifiers, one contest
- Life Path 8 and 9 compatibilitywhat is the money for
If you are a Life Path 9
The Humanitarian · heart group · Life Path 9 meaning
- Life Path 9 and 1 compatibilitythe plan and the reckoning
- Life Path 9 and 2 compatibilitytwo people running empty
- Life Path 9 and 3 compatibilitythey made it funny again
- Life Path 9 and 4 compatibilitysizing what you took on
- Life Path 9 and 5 compatibilitythey left and you read it
- Life Path 9 and 6 compatibilitythe world and the room
- Life Path 9 and 7 compatibilityknowing without doing
- Life Path 9 and 8 compatibilitywhat is it all for
- Life Path 9 and 9 compatibilityall meaning, no dishes
If you are a Life Path 11
The Channel · heart group · Life Path 11 meaning
- Life Path 11 and 1 compatibilitythe signal gets a plan
- Life Path 11 and 2 compatibilityone antenna, two volumes
- Life Path 11 and 3 compatibilitydepth meets a good time
- Life Path 11 and 4 compatibilitythe mood and the method
- Life Path 11 and 5 compatibilityyour exit from your head
- Life Path 11 and 6 compatibilitywho looks after you two
- Life Path 11 and 7 compatibilitytwo kinds of quiet
- Life Path 11 and 8 compatibilityinsight meets leverage
- Life Path 11 and 9 compatibilitycarrying the whole room
- Life Path 11 and 11 compatibilitytwo antennas, no ground
Master numbers have their own friendship guides: Life Path 11, Life Path 22 and Life Path 33. Or start from what each Life Path number means.
Questions
Life Path compatibility, briefly answered
- What is Life Path compatibility?
- Life Path compatibility compares two Life Path numbers, the single number each person's birth date reduces to in Pythagorean numerology. Soulmath sorts the nine numbers into four vibe groups and scores each pairing by how those groups relate. It describes how two friends tend to move together. It is not a verdict on the friendship.
- Which Life Path numbers are most compatible?
- In Soulmath's model the highest Life Path term, 80, goes to two different numbers from the same vibe group: 1 and 8, 2 and 6, 2 and 9, 3 and 5, 4 and 7 and 6 and 9. Two people with the same number score 75. No pairing scores below 60, and a lower number marks more friction to talk about, not a friendship to avoid.
- How do I work out numerology compatibility from two birthdays?
- Reduce each birth date to its Life Path number: reduce the month, the day and the year separately, add the three, then reduce the total, keeping 11, 22 and 33 intact. Find both numbers on the chart for the Life Path term. A live Soulmath compare then adds a small term for matching Birthday numbers and for master numbers. The calculator does all of it from two birthdays and shows each step.
- Why do 3 and 7 score the same as 7 and 3?
- Because the arithmetic is symmetric. The score for a pairing does not depend on who is asking. The advice does, which is why most pairings have two pages: one written for each person in the friendship.
- Where are master numbers 11, 22 and 33 on the chart?
- Life Path 11 has its own row under the main chart, with a page for each pairing. For grouping, the engine places 11 with 2, 22 with 4 and 33 with 6, so 22 and 33 read off the 4 and 6 rows. A live compare keeps the master number unreduced and adds a small master-number term. The Life Path 11, 22 and 33 guides cover how those numbers show up in friendships.
- Does a low score mean we should not be friends?
- No. The lowest Life Path term on the chart is 60, and it marks opposite vibe groups: more friction, and usually more to learn from each other. Soulmath describes dynamics between friends. It does not rate whether a friendship is worth having.
Run the real numbers for you and one friend.
Free on the homepage. Two birthdays, no account, and the full derivation for both sides. Then send the result to the friend it is about.
Reflective friendship numerology based on the Pythagorean Life Path and Birthday numbers. Not fate, not a diagnosis, not dating compatibility, and not advice about whether someone should stay in your life. Last reviewed September 17, 2026.