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Friendship fit · 81 pairings and the 11 row

Life Path compatibility chart, for friends

Life Path compatibility compares two Life Path numbers: the single number each birthday reduces to. This chart shows how Soulmath scores every pairing from 1 to 9, and links to a page written for each side of each friendship.

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Numerology compatibility, without the verdicts. The numbers describe how two people tend to move together. What you do with that is between you and your friend.

The chart

Numerology compatibility chart: Life Path 1 to 9

Find your Life Path down the side and your friend’s along the top. Each value is the Life Path term out of 100, the largest single piece of a Soulmath compare. It is the same number for every pair of people with those two Life Paths.

Life Path term out of 100 for each pairing. Rows are your Life Path, columns are your friend’s.
You ↓
Them →
123456789
1757060706070708070
2707570607080607080
3607075708070706070
4706070757060807060
5607080707570706070
6708070607075607080
7706070807060757060
8807060706070707570
9708070607080607075

Life Path 11 compatibility chart

Life Path 11 is a master number and is never reduced in a reading. For this one step the model places it through the 2 underneath it, in the heart group, which is why 11 with 2 lands in the shared-number band.

Life Path term out of 100 when you are a Life Path 11. Columns are your friend’s Life Path.
You ↓12345678911
1170757060708060708075
80Same vibe group, different numbers
Strong resonance. You want similar things from a friendship and go about it slightly differently.
75The same number twice
Comfortable and instantly familiar, marked down a little because nobody covers the blind spot.
70Neighbouring vibe groups
Complementary. Each of you covers something the other tends to skip.
60Opposite vibe groups
The high-friction, high-interest band. More to negotiate, usually more to learn.

The chart is symmetric: 3 and 7 score the same as 7 and 3. The pages below are not. Each one is written for the person reading it.

The method

How Soulmath scores Life Path compatibility

Each birthday reduces to a Life Path number using the Pythagorean method: reduce the month, the day and the year separately, add the three, then reduce the total. Master numbers 11, 22 and 33 are never reduced. The calculation guide walks through it with worked examples.

The nine single-digit Life Paths sit in four vibe groups, arranged in a cycle so neighbours complement each other and opposites create the most friction. The Life Path term comes from how the two groups relate, which is why the chart only ever shows four values.

drive
Life Path 1 and 8. Leans toward drive and initiative.
heart
Life Path 2, 6 and 9. Leans toward attunement and care.
spark
Life Path 3 and 5. Leans toward expression and change.
roots
Life Path 4 and 7. Leans toward structure and depth.

A live compare uses two full birthdays, so it adds two smaller terms on top: a couple of points when both Birthday numbers reduce to the same digit, and a few more when a master number is present. The total is capped at 100, and every term is shown on the result.

None of this is a forecast. It is a consistent way to start a conversation about how two friends work, with arithmetic you can check. The method page covers the sources and the limits.

All 91 pages

Every Life Path pairing, written from your side

Pick your own Life Path first. Each link is one friendship described from your half of it: what it is like, where it keeps going wrong, and what you can do about that.

If you are a Life Path 1

The Source · drive group · Life Path 1 meaning

If you are a Life Path 2

The Diplomat · heart group · Life Path 2 meaning

If you are a Life Path 3

The Creative Communicator · spark group · Life Path 3 meaning

If you are a Life Path 4

The Builder · roots group · Life Path 4 meaning

If you are a Life Path 5

The Freedom-Seeker · spark group · Life Path 5 meaning

If you are a Life Path 6

The Nurturer · heart group · Life Path 6 meaning

If you are a Life Path 7

The Seeker · roots group · Life Path 7 meaning

If you are a Life Path 8

The Power-Wielder · drive group · Life Path 8 meaning

If you are a Life Path 9

The Humanitarian · heart group · Life Path 9 meaning

If you are a Life Path 11

The Channel · heart group · Life Path 11 meaning

Master numbers have their own friendship guides: Life Path 11, Life Path 22 and Life Path 33. Or start from what each Life Path number means.

Questions

Life Path compatibility, briefly answered

What is Life Path compatibility?
Life Path compatibility compares two Life Path numbers, the single number each person's birth date reduces to in Pythagorean numerology. Soulmath sorts the nine numbers into four vibe groups and scores each pairing by how those groups relate. It describes how two friends tend to move together. It is not a verdict on the friendship.
Which Life Path numbers are most compatible?
In Soulmath's model the highest Life Path term, 80, goes to two different numbers from the same vibe group: 1 and 8, 2 and 6, 2 and 9, 3 and 5, 4 and 7 and 6 and 9. Two people with the same number score 75. No pairing scores below 60, and a lower number marks more friction to talk about, not a friendship to avoid.
How do I work out numerology compatibility from two birthdays?
Reduce each birth date to its Life Path number: reduce the month, the day and the year separately, add the three, then reduce the total, keeping 11, 22 and 33 intact. Find both numbers on the chart for the Life Path term. A live Soulmath compare then adds a small term for matching Birthday numbers and for master numbers. The calculator does all of it from two birthdays and shows each step.
Why do 3 and 7 score the same as 7 and 3?
Because the arithmetic is symmetric. The score for a pairing does not depend on who is asking. The advice does, which is why most pairings have two pages: one written for each person in the friendship.
Where are master numbers 11, 22 and 33 on the chart?
Life Path 11 has its own row under the main chart, with a page for each pairing. For grouping, the engine places 11 with 2, 22 with 4 and 33 with 6, so 22 and 33 read off the 4 and 6 rows. A live compare keeps the master number unreduced and adds a small master-number term. The Life Path 11, 22 and 33 guides cover how those numbers show up in friendships.
Does a low score mean we should not be friends?
No. The lowest Life Path term on the chart is 60, and it marks opposite vibe groups: more friction, and usually more to learn from each other. Soulmath describes dynamics between friends. It does not rate whether a friendship is worth having.

Run the real numbers for you and one friend.

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Reflective friendship numerology based on the Pythagorean Life Path and Birthday numbers. Not fate, not a diagnosis, not dating compatibility, and not advice about whether someone should stay in your life. Last reviewed September 17, 2026.